Teaching My Child to Blend: Tips to Help with Sound Blending at Home
Teaching My Child to Blend
Whether it's "c-a-t" becoming "cat" or "s-t-r-e-tch" becoming "stretch," blending is the key to unlocking the doors to reading fluency! It is so important!
Reading is one of the most critical skills your child will develop, and as a parent, you play a vital role in supporting this journey. One essential component of learning to read is "blending." If you're wondering what blending is and how you can help your child master blending, you're in the right place.
What is Blending?
Blending is the process of combining individual sounds (phonemes) together to form words!
For example, when a child hears the individual sounds /c/, /a/, and /t/, blending allows them to combine these sounds to say the word "cat."
The reverse of this is called orthographic mapping. Orthographic mapping is a crucial process that helps children learn to read and spell. It's like creating a mental map of words in their minds.
When kids encounter a new word, they break it down into smaller parts, like sounds and patterns. They then connect these parts to the letters and spellings of the word. Over time, as they see the word repeatedly in different contexts, they reinforce this mental map, making it easier for them to recognize and remember the word accurately in the future. We are helping them understand that reading is just putting different sounds together to make words.
Why is learning to blend sounds to read words important?
Well, it helps our kids decode unfamiliar words! It is a fundamental skill in phonics! Very important!!! It is what our brain needs to do when we read unfamiliar words (or any word).
Blending is important because it…
Builds Reading Fluency: Children who can't blend sounds quickly can read more smoothly and with better comprehension.
Enhances Decoding Skills: It helps children break down and understand new words, expanding their vocabulary.
Boosts Confidence: Mastering blending gives children confidence in their reading abilities, encouraging them to read more.
At what age should my child be able to blend?
There is no concrete answer for when kids should be able to blend. Typically, we see kids starting to blend simple words around the age of 5 or 6. But this can completely depend on the child! Some kids are ready to start blending sounds to read words as early as 3 or 4 and others don't start till after 6!
So the better question is WHEN are students ready to start blending?
Kids can start blending sounds into words once they know a small group of letters, understand the concept of blending, and our developmentally ready for it. For example, if a child is excited about learning to read and already knows the sounds for m, s, a, and t, they can start reading simple words like mat, sat, and Sam!
Personal Suggestion: If you have a younger child who seems ready to blend, go for it! Just keep all activities play-based and short.
How can I teach blending to my child at home?
As a parent, YOU can support your child's blending skills through various fun and engaging activities. Here are some practical tips and exercises to try at home:
Focus on phonemic awareness. This is where we blend sounds ORALLY and a great place to start for pre-readers. Activities that enhance this skill include:
Isolating beginning and ending sounds Ask your child to identify the sound they hear at the beginning and end of words
Sound Segmentation: Break words into individual sounds and have your child repeat them. You would say, “/c/ /a/ /t/ and your child would say “CAT”
Play a little game of “What am I saying?” Say the individual sounds in a word and have your child blend the sounds together to figure out what you are saying! Say this: “What am I saying… /s/ /a/ /t/?” They will say, “SAT.” You will need to give them a few examples if they have never played this game before.
Start with Simple/Small Words: Begin with two-letter and three-letter words like “at,” “in,” "cat," "mom," and "hat." Move onto letters with 4 sounds ONLY when they are confident and comfortable with 2-3 sounds.
Start with minimal space between sounds: Try not to put too much space in between sounds. They have to keep each sound in their short-term memory, so the less space between each sound the better.
Incorporate movement: Jump as they blend each sound! Or have them do any kind of movement while they are blending!
Blending Drills: Engage in quick blending drills every day. (There are so many fun ways to do this and you only need to do a few words at a time)
Oral Blending: Say individual sounds slowly (e.g., /c/ /a/ /t/) and have your child blend them into a word.
Sound Boxes: Draw three boxes on a piece of paper. Say a word, and have your child write the corresponding sound in each box
Make it Multisensory!
Magnetic Letters: Provide magnetic letters for hands-on practice. Encourage your child to form words on the refrigerator or a magnetic board.
MODEL for them when you read aloud: Reading aloud is a powerful way for YOU to model blending!
Point and Blend: While reading, point to each letter and blend the sounds together. This helps your child see the connection between written and spoken words.
Play Blending Games: Make learning fun with blending games (See next session for a list of activities and games):
Use Technology Wisely: There are so many different blending apps and videos out there. But NO app can replace YOU!
Provide a LOT of practice
Play-Based Activities and Games to Help Your Child with Blending
Sound Boxes: These provide a GREAT visual for kids who are just beginning to understand that individual sounds make up words. Draw 3-4 boxes. Say a word with 2-4 sounds. Have them push a small manipulative (eraser, chip, small toy) into each box as they say each sound. Click here for the ones I use!
Word Blending: Write down a word on a whiteboard or paper, then cover each letter with a sticky note. Slowly reveal each letter, asking your child to blend the sounds together to form the word.
What am I saying? Say each sound in a word. They need to blend the sounds to figure out what word you are saying. (great one to do anywhere!)
Egg Blending: Click to get the directions
Magnetic letters: Build words with magnetic letters and change one sound at a time
Who am I? This activity is similar to I Spy. Put word cards out on a table, and give clues about a word they see. For example, I have three letters and I start with /h/. Who am I?
Magnatiles: Layout 3 tiles (or one tile per sound in the words you are practicing) Give your child a CVC word and have them write each letter they hear on a separate tile. Then have them snap them together as the “check it” (read the word)
Blending Boards: Use fun blending boards based on your child's interests. A visual for phonemic awareness drills to help students visualize where they are hearing sounds or manipulating sounds. Click here for the ones I use!
Zoom: Use black construction paper to create a road. Line up the letters to form a CVC word. Your child will drive the car, stopping at each letter, to say the sound. Then go back to the beginning and ZOOM their car below the word quickly to read the word. Repeat with different words.
Blending Bingo: Create bingo cards with simple words. Call out individual sounds, and have your child blend them to mark their card.
Phonics Memory: Click here to get the directions
Got it! This is such a fun card game! It includes over 5 different ways to play! Click here to get yours
The Fidget Game: This is my new favorite game to practice CVC words!!! Check it out here! (And use code PLAY15 for 15% off!)
Simon Says: This is just like Simon Says but instead of saying the action that they will or will not do you will segment the sounds and they will need to blend them together to figure out what to do.
Example: You would say, “Simon says to /j/ /u/ /m/ /p/” And they will blend those sounds together to figure out that they need to jump!
Want more play-based blending ideas?
My Reading Through Play Activities for Early Readers guide for parents all of these activities, plus activities for letter knowledge and phonemic and phonological awareness! You can get your child foundational skills in just 5-10 minutes a day!
My child is struggling to blend sounds: Tips to Help Students Struggling with Blending
"Help! Despite knowing all the letter sounds, my child still struggles to read.” Is this you??
OR does your child read a word like cat, say the sounds /c/ /a/ /t/ but end up saying a random word like, dog??
Wait, how did they get dog from /c/ /a/ /t/???
I understand the frustration and this is not that uncommon! So you are not alone!
Here is what I want you to try if this is your child….Successive Blending
It can be challenging for children to retain all the sounds in their short-term memory for long enough to form a word. Successive blending (or continuous blending) is a technique that helps students who are having trouble blending more than two sounds. It has been a game-changer for so many of my students.
So what is it? It is saying the first sound in a word, followed by the second sound and quickly blending those two sounds and THEN adding in the third sound.
So if your child was trying to read the word, cat, here is what they would do:
Say the first sound /c/
Say the second sound /a/
NOW (this is the important part), have them put those two sounds together and say /caaaa/
Have your learner say the last stand /t/
Next, have them put all of the sounds together /ca/ /t/. Then, /caaat/
If your child is having trouble blending 3 or more sounds, definitely give successive blending a try!
Other Reasons Your Child Knows the Letter Sounds But Still Can't Blend
A few other things to consider if your child is struggling to blend:
Do they actually know the letter sounds? They need to be able to identify a letter sound QUICKLY before being able to successfully blend a word with that sound (visually).
Do they guess at words, use the picture as a clue, or just memorize words? This is especially true if you have an older learner who has built some ineffective reading strategies. None of these “strategies” will help your child become a confident reader! We have to have our children blend the sounds in words if we want them to become readers.
Do they actually understand the concept of blending and why they are doing it? Make sure to constantly tell your child WHY we practice blending sounds into words! “Say every word we say or read is made up of individual sounds! We have to say each sound and put those sounds together so we can read a word!”
Have they had enough practice with blending? Blending is a tricky concept for most kids to grasp. So, make sure you do A LOT of modeling before you expect them to do it on their own.
Getting your child to blend at home! You Can Do This!
Blending is one of the most important reading skills for your child to understand! We want to make sure they understand the concept of blending and how to do it so they can become fluent readers.
Incorporating these blending tips and activities into your daily routine gives your child a HUGE step forward in their reading journey. Remember, the key is to make this process enjoyable and to provide consistent practice.
Tools that Promote Blending
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This is a MUST teaching tool fo me when it comes to blending! Perfect visual and kids can manipulate and change the sounds!
I am all for making learning multisensory and sensory bins are the perfect way to do just that! I love this one from Mama of Joy Sensory Play.
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